Dear Dad，
Today I as at the shopping mall and I spent a lot of time reading the Father’s Day cards. They all had a special message that in some ay or another reflected ho I feel about you. Yet as I selected and read, and selected and read again, it occurred to me that not a single card said hat I really ant to say to you.
亲爱的爸爸：
今天我在商场的时候, 我读了好长时间的有关“父亲节”的贺卡。那些卡片上面的文字很特别，也或多或少地表达出了我对您的感受。我挑选读过一次后，又挑选读了一遍，但那并不是一张贺卡所能表达出我想对您说的话的。
You’ll soon be 84 years old, Dad, and you and I ill have had 55 Father’s Days together. I haven’t alays been ith you on Father’s Day nor have I been ith you for all of your birthdays. It asn’t because I didn’t ant to be ith you. I’ve alays been ith you in my heart but sometimes life gets in the ay.
爸爸，很快您就要84岁了，您和我也将度过这第55个“父亲节”。“父亲节”的那天，我总是不能和您在一起，连您过生日的时候我也是这样，但这并不是因为我不想陪在您身边。其实，在我心里，我总是和您在一起。不过，有的时候，生活也会有差错。
You kno, Dad, there as a time hen e ere not only separated by the generation gap but pletely polarized by it. You stood on one side of the Great Divide and I on the other, father and daughter split apart by age and experience, opinions, hairstyles, cosmetics, clothing, curfes, music, and boys.
爸爸，您也知道，我们父女俩曾有一段时间因为代沟不在一起过，比如年龄、个人阅历、观点、发型、化妆、服装、音乐、作息时间以及男朋友，因为这些，我们的观点也非常对立。您站在“大分离”的一端，我站在“大分离”的另一端。
The Father-Daughter Duel of ’54 shifted into high gear hen you taught me to drive the old Dodge and I decided I ould drive the ‘54 Chevy hether you liked it or not. The police officer ho escorted me home after you reported the Chevy stolen late one evening as too young to understand father-daughter politics and too old to have much tolerance for a snotty 16 year old. You ere so decent about it, Dad, and I think that as probably hat made it the orst night of my life.
那时，您教我学开那部道奇旧车，可我却不管您喜欢不喜欢执意要开雪拂兰’54那辆车。当时，我们父女俩关于雪拂兰汽车的争执也调到了最高挡。可那天晚上，您却报警说雪拂兰车被盗。之后，一个警官把我护送到家，可他太年轻了，根本不明白我们父女俩之间的政治斗争，可他也不小了，对一个16岁的流鼻涕的小孩却没有太多的耐心。爸爸，您倒对这件事处理得很体面，而我想那可能是我一生中最糟糕的一个夜晚吧。
Our relationship improved immensely hen I married a man you liked, and things really turned around hen e begin making babies right and left. We didn’t have a television set, you kno, and e had to entertain ourselves someho. I didn’t kno hat to expect of you and Mom as grandparents but I didn’t have to ait long to find out. Those babies adored you then just as they adore you no. When I see you ith all your grandchildren, I kno you’ve given them the finest gift a grandparent can give. You’ve given them yourself.
在我嫁了一个您喜欢的女婿后，我们俩之间的关系才缓和了好多。后来，我们为了好好地生个孩子，就离开了，我们之间的那些事情也就结束了。这事您也知道，我们没有电视机看，我们就只好自娱自乐了。我不知道我还能对作为外公外婆的您和妈妈抱什么期望，但是，不要等到很久我就会找到答案。过去那些孩子热爱您，现在他们还像以前那样热爱您。当我看见您和您的外孙在一起的时候，我知道您都已经给了他们最好的礼物，您把心都掏给他们了。
Somehere along the line, the generation gap evaporated. Age separates us no and little else. We agree on most everything, perhaps because e’ve learned there isn’t much orth disagreeing about. Hoever, I ould like to mention that fly fishing isn’t all you’ve cracked it up to be, Dad. You can say hat you ant about rist action and stance and blah, blah, blah
就是这样，您我之间的代沟慢慢消失了。现在年龄和其它一些问题的差异把您和我分开，可我们在很多事情的上的看法都是一样的，这可能是因为我们明白了没有那么多的事情值得我们争辩吧。然而，我想提示一下的是，爸爸，飞蝇钓鱼是您最喜欢的一种钓法，您可以说些您想做的手腕动作，站姿和一些没有用的话什么的。
I’ve been happily drifting for a lot of years, Dad, and I didn’t see you getting older.
爸爸，虽然我已经漂泊很多年了，但是我很快乐。然而，我却发现您没有变老，还是那么年轻。
I suppose I sa us and our relationship as aging together, rather like a fine ine. Numbers never seemed important. But the oddest thing happened last eek. I as at a stop sign and I atched as you turned the corner in your car. It didn’t immediately occur to me that it as you because the man driving looked so elderly and fragile behind the heel of that huge car. It as rather like a slap in the face delivered from out of nohere. Perhaps I sa your age for the first time that day. Or maybe I sa my on.
随着年龄的增长，我认为您和我之间的关系慢慢地融洽了好多，就像是一瓶好酒，越陈越香。家人看起来好像没有一点意义似的，但是，上周发生了一件最奇怪的事情，我站在停车标志旁，看见您开着车要拐弯。可是我并没有立刻反映到那是爸爸您。因为那个人开着车，又在那部大车的车轮后面，就显得他岁数很大，身体也很虚弱的样子。可我却感到不知道从哪里飞来的一记耳光似的重重地打在我的脸上，也许，那是我第一次“看见”您的年龄，也许，只有我自己看见罢了。
